Where to Go First

Most of the advice about depression that’s out there says that the first place to go for help is your primary care physician. That may seem counterintuitive. After all, doctors are notorious for being oblivious to psychiatric problems. Either they dismiss them, assuming that all their complaints (especially those of women) are “all in their head,” or they over-diagnose mental illnesses and pass out pills indiscriminately. At least, those are the stereotypes.

The reality can be far different. Family doctors can absolutely have a positive role to play in diagnosing and treating mental illness.

The last time I went to my primary care physician (for a nail fungus), the nurse practitioner, after taking my vitals, proceeded to ask me the questions collectively known as the Depression Screener. “Do you feel like a burden to your family/do you no longer enjoy things you used to All the time/Most days/Sometimes/Once in a while/All the time” and so on.

My blood pressure was high that day and I see a psychiatrist and take all kinds of psychotropics. I’m sure all that is in my file. “Can’t you just put down that I’m anxious and depressed and leave it at that?” I asked.

“Let’s go through it anyway,” she said. And so we did. No surprises. I was anxious and depressed.

The depression screener may not have been useful for me, but it is for lots of people. There are a lot of seniors, for example, who are living with depression without realizing it. Children, too. Teens. People of all ages. Finding them and getting them help when it’s in the early stages can help them avoid a life of misery and despair.

Not every person gets to find out through the screener. My mother, who was in a nursing home, made some remarks that suggested to me that she was depressed — extremely depressed, including suicidal ideation. I excused myself, found her doctor, and told him what she said, and that I believed she needed antidepressants. Rather than pushing back, he believed me and prescribed them.

Of course, it’s easy enough to beat the screener. The answers are fairly obvious. In fact, I know one person who gave all the answers that would keep him out of the psych ward. But fortunately, most people answer the questions truthfully and get the help they need.

But back to primary care physicians. They’re also helpful in cases of depression, anxiety, and other mental disorders. They know about the most common antidepressants and other psychotropics and can prescribe them to get you through until you can see a psychiatrist. They can give you a referral to a psychiatrist. And, difficult as it is for a first-timer to get a prompt appointment, they can keep monitoring your condition, prescribing as needed, until there’s finally someone who’s taking new patients. My own family doctor was willing to keep prescribing all my medications when one psychiatrist retired and I had to find a new one and wait for an appointment.

My primary care physician is part of my treatment team.